Our Life with start of birth is limitless, tensionless, target less, bondless, energetic and just to enjoy. And We cannot expect a better start of life than this. A Child when grow with passing time starts learn the language, daily activity, no. of play and special is that child in that time fells no target like pressure to learn or cost of toys or any restriction. And at a point He starts study and here is also limitless space for him to get knowledge & success without any restrictions. Just do good & get good like situation till this point for every child have. And after completion the study a boy first time take a pressure in reference of Money to get a good job as well as good salary. Everything is ok till this point. And with passing of time Man starts job. In this post main focus is on man with private jobs.
Let’s go further. Man gets his first salary and is very happy, he enjoys the time & his own money. With passing time His expense increased by default and after next two to three months He started to feel that the salary is not enough or less to afford the expenses and by the time a tension takes place first time in his mind. Just suppose that the man before two to three months lived without any tension even without own earnings or money is tense despite his own earnings & money now. Why? Not 100% but I am sure that behind this tension there is nothing else than additional show off of people in Today’s. As man enters in private job, He observes that people have luxurious life as costly clothes, Vehicles, costly watches, iPhones or costly smart phones etc. and one more thing not to mention but fact that have girlfriend. And then what? Yes, as you guess rightly the man starts to prepare himself to get all these things but there was just matter of money as He is with too less salary to get or have all these things. And in his first effort He tries to get help from parents for these things as much as possible. But help is just help and makes him feel very soon that just help is not enough to get or have all these luxurious things as well as luxurious life.
Finally, Man starts to think seriously and moves towards other options about to get luxurious things as well as luxurious life. He observes the life of people facilitated with all luxurious things and find out that they all are using credit cards and have all the things of EMI base. And He feels that loan on EMI base & credit cards is best option with so less salary to afford luxurious life. And We all know well about easy availability of EMI offers & credit cards as don’t need to go anywhere as so many calls We receive on daily basis just like trap of EMI offers & credit cards. And as per expectations Man fells in this trap easily and takes heavy loan on EMI based and keeps credit cards also with Him just before start of purchasing luxurious things (like iPhone, costly watch, Costly Vehicle etc.) as well as luxurious life. Having these things is passion of Today’s Man.
And thus, actual life starts of Today’s Man from here but things are different from young age as the life has been changed that was limitless, tensionless, aimless, bondless and was just to enjoy is in limit, started tense and enjoy is terms & conditions base like load on EMI & credit cards. As Man have now new iPhone, New Vehicle some other luxurious items also He is in passion and feels himself special among the people but there are so many tension & bound behind this passion in forms of EMI on loan, iPhone, New Vehicle etc. against additional show off. And if there is a home loan for fifteen to twenty years then things are more tense or worse for him. And in next two to three months man finds himself fell in trap of Heavy EMI & Back log or due of credit cards. Man, now wait for next salary not just for something new or enjoyable yet just to manage the life or EMI & Dues of credit cards and feels bounded to do job without any real bound with company in any situation. Afraid of job loss is serious concern for him now. He feels now that salary is seeming too less than ever to manage these things, and if there is a girlfriend then expense is totally unaffordable for Her. Things have been too much complicated for him now. He feels his life like seized life; where his need & emotions gets no place just due to heavy EMI of Load & dues of credit cards.
And Today’s Man life with heavy EMI of load & dues of credit cards has been seized and man’s life is just like passing time to full fill EMI & dues of credit cards and there is no solid base for future as man is taking loans for such useable things that is not like future property like iPhone, Vehicle, watch etc. & about Home EMI that is about 15-20 Years and has been makes life seized because if man thinks something then that is only EMI & Dues of credit cards. And rest life growth has been buried by himself by taking heavy loan and have no other source to come out from these. Household Debt Percentage as per available online data resource is enough to tell the fact where India’s percentage is 40.2%, Canada 100%, USA 69%, China 60%.
Thus, Today’s Man EMI based life is like seized life as majority of people live the life on base of EMI & Dues of credit cards that cannot be considered a growth of Man. It is just EMI Based show off life and man is helpless to live this seized life. And if you will observe then you will find that so many people have been trying to suicide or have suicide just due to this “Seized Life” with heavy loan & dues of credit cards. We will have to understand the value of life and life’s real growth and need to avoid life to be seized just for show off passion on base of EMI & Dues of credit cards.
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