Relations……. Name is enough in itself, a lovely word. No imagination of family as well as society as well as nation without Relations. So, you can say that This is not only a word yet this is a word that gives feelings of start of this world.
Mother… first of all, most respected, most superior first in this world. So that it is said that no other relation can take place or may be superior than mother. Mother take care You before Your birth with your first breath in womb.
Comes to the point & let’s start about the relations start with Your birth, Can You imagine about the atmosphere or about flowless happiness surroundings You in Home after your birth? Definitely No. Why, because You were crying but rest were enjoying. But You can feel this after new baby born in your home or in neighbors. There are number of congratulations. No. of happy discussions, no. of people surrounding new born baby & addressing Him in different voice & sound like cute baby, copy of father or copy of mother, Beautiful etc. This is the only time in Your life when You cry but Your mother smile. Same time Father controls his emotions & tears of happiness among them. Who were they surrounding You in full of joy? No one other than relative of Your father & mother. There was joy or happiness atmosphere just due to your birth and all are surrounding you have gotten new relation name with you. All were surrounding you were happy as someone has become father, some uncle & aunty, someone grandfather & grandmother, Bua, Foofa, Nana, Nani etc. What was Your recognition of yourself at that time? Nothing, Yet You were special, who make You special? Relations & only relations. Relations make you so special that there were Singing Songs with drum & sweet distribution. But did You feel ever that You make feel all them special in your life? If yes then you understand the value of relations. These are our Rites.
Not only on Your birth, on all occasions relations make you special. For example: Son obey you, wife follow & respect you, elders support you, younger respect you. But very disappointing that nowadays relations started losing faith. If relations make you so special then why need to be smarter and against rule of relations. Need to find out that Why new generation is against us or our relations rule or rites? Is there any big mistake our side? Are we failed to taught manners to our new generations? Are we not respecting our relations and new generation is following same? There are so many serious questions in reference of our relations because relations as already I mentioned that relation is not only a word that is a word that make start of this world.
Many issue always cleared just due to elder and respect of elders. In most family parents’ or elder’s decisions people accepts as final decisions. But in some family or society due lack of elder’s respect or deny obey from younger relations losing faith. Losing faith in relation is taking place on big level. Parents or elders interfere is ridicules for some next gen. One more thing people are so busy in growth or in duty that they are forgetting his basics i.e. relations and minimizing no. of relations or they have lack of respect in relations and if there is no respect then there is no mean of that relation. Doing so and showing busy actually people are not only minimizing no. of relations if they are minimizing their own identification. Does not matter how rich You are or how much money You have if you are not taking care of relations as without relations & relatives no one can make you special in crowd of unknown people. Imagine if you will not maintain faith & respect in relations then what kind of atmosphere around your new born baby or on occasion of marriage of your son or daughter as well as what kind of celebration in your own house in that time? I don’t know what you are feeling about this but I scared about this that there will no healthy atmosphere in absent of relations & relative (including neighbors & friends) and new generation would never understand the value of relations and this will be disaster for society.
Being human all like celebrations on occasions of festival or marriage but for this you will have to feel & keep respect for relations. You cannot make celebrations without friends & relations and for that you will have make healthy & respectful faith in relations. There is not matter of celebrations only actually I don’t want to make you scared but fact there will be no one with you in absence of faith in relations in your sorrow even your family.
So, Wakeup else all will be destroyed in absence of resect & faith in relations. And make feel new generation also about the happiness due to relations and value of relations.
Thanking You!