Mindset is not just a word yet it defines that how things will go around of you in society. Positive mindset always good for people as well as for society. But very disappointing that if there is a change in people nowadays on a big level then it is mindset. Why? People are not believing each other, why? People are fighting in family, why? Just due to changed or fixed “Mindset”. You will see people doing so many things for to be positive around of you for example: People are using Evil Eye Dome, Vastu Dosh Nivaran Yantra and many others decorative items also, but they are never ready to change in their mindset.
Imagine a circumstance of a family. Where two children enjoyed their childhood in caring of parents & elders in a healthy atmosphere of family. Under family supervision they both very happy and they have full believe in their parents & elders either for their happiness or safety. They often got surprised with some toys or some toffees or walk in garden or market from their parents & elders. They both are very happy. With passing years, they started towards school & join with other children. They learn so many good things in school and they feel wrong in themselves about fighting for toys or toffee at home with each other in childhood. Means they started to be mature at some point & they share or discuss about good or bad with each other.
But with passing time they step in young age. And they have better thought about good & bad.
Everything is right till the point. But then they started to be competitive of each other. And not only competitive yet they started to hide the things from each other. Why? From where they got it, from school or home? Definitely not from school. Guess other way….? Who take them in competition? Definitely their own parents. Surprised? But actually, this is fact. The competition started from their own parents then after followed by their elders & other people around of them. Result They started to hide the things with each other the separation slightly coverts into jealous. They started argued with each other even on small topics & hot talk is their daily routine work. Why so, you think ever? Because there is entry of Mindset. They both are with a set mindset. And they just want to defeat to each other in everything by hook or crook.
What You will say now about this competition or jealous? Is this Mindset good for anyone? Never. Now they are not in competition only, they are in jealous also, who is responsible for this mindset yet Theye were so genuine & honest in behavior with each other. After making this competition now parents & elders once again want to be fully active and start to be hard to both for good behavior with each other. But results of their effort is in vain of making both good for each other, Why? Just due to their fixed mindset. And accordingly, they blame on parents & elders of taking favor of each other. Why Parents are making competition between two son, as they always use to say that Your brother is so good in study but not you are, your brother is so good in playing but not you are, your brother is wiser than you? Why they don’t just encourage both only for good not against each other for being good? With passing time, they both started the things hide & seek with parents also believing that parents are taking favor of my brother not mine. And with this mindset they move further. They started doing the things in his favor only and jealous increased more. Result that they are fighting with each other for such a small thing which they have shared very happily in their child hood i.e. their happiness, things like food, cycle etc. just due to change of mindset. We use antivirus in mobile handset, why? Very simple, just for protection. In same way Parents & elders are antivirus in our life and they save us from so many evils spread in society. By avoiding parents & elders they both are unsafe now and they started to be involved alcohol party & dance without keeping in knowledge of their parents. Further You can imagine what will be future of both with this change of mindset, as they have mindset of making fool to elders & parents for alcohol party, drugs etc.
That was an example of a family mindset. But what about others in society where people mindset is fixed and there is no place for any other thinking about healthy environment, all have feelings like race? For example, A car driver or biker is mindset to keep himself a head of everyone despite heavy traffic and it does not matter that what discomforts or hurts others are feelings due to this, a lawyer always with mindset that He has to save the customer does not matter that customer is innocent or murderer, a doctor mindset is making money first and patient is second one, a thief mindset is that theft is his profession etc. yet we all know that there is punishment according to karma.
So, first start believes in yourself with positive mindset because people are nowadays has changed mindset just due to fear of success, live hood in future and they are suffering with negative mindset due to this.
How You will control such kind of mindset? All five fingers are not equal in a palm of your hand; can you make them in same size? Definitely No. So, We should accept the ability of any person & accordingly we should encourage the person for doing good with positive mindset.
Thanking You!